To quote from my little, adorable sis, Melanie
" whats love if its all about wkling along town areas, holding hands, cuddling or kissing to tell the entire world that you've got a partner? furthermore, that person got to look good to make you look good. then in true love, the relation is strained to the world's ideal love thingy.
1 Corinthians 13:4-8 "4 Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; 5 does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; 6 does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; 7 bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. 8 Love never fails."
where did the physical aspects come in? its just like flavours. "
or just like toppings or a mask to conceal any cracks forming underneath, it never lasts ....
Love never fails .... if there's any failures in 'love' , it's not true love.....
True love is more than just feelings, it's a decision, a total commitment to adore even when she is not adorable, to love when she is unlovable, to love even when she doesn't love you back, to love even when she doesn't deserve to be loved, to love without expecting anything in return, to love unconditionally & sacrifically, to love with the agape love of God....
Thank You Abba Father for Your healing touch !!
Time to reconcilate with those people ........
Saturday, September 16, 2006
Pa-toh-logy
Yes... Pa-toh-ology ... It's singlish referring the subject for dating ....
And yes, i am back to this abandoned blog of mine...
for the umpteeth time this past month, someone's asking about me getting attached or when am i going to get attached for that matter. *sigh*, and yes i do want to get attached, but it's more than finding a right partner, it's about being a right partner yourself. I am still working on that... Lots of things having be going through in my life for the past week, God's really showing me a lot of stuff about handling my emotions and matters of the heart.
I have seen quite a few people in my class who went through break-ups, what the point of getting together then in the first place....? You mean they just enter a relationship to 'try' each other out ?? That's so ABSURB!! What NAIVETY !! What good is instant gratification if all you have later is just weeks/months of hurt...
Back to the topic, thank God for His love and how He's healing of past hurts right now, thanks D -Team for praying for me ...!!
I am really looking for a friend, a best friend to just open up myself totally towards him/her... ; a soulmate to love unconditionally, unsacrifically.....
And yes, i am back to this abandoned blog of mine...
for the umpteeth time this past month, someone's asking about me getting attached or when am i going to get attached for that matter. *sigh*, and yes i do want to get attached, but it's more than finding a right partner, it's about being a right partner yourself. I am still working on that... Lots of things having be going through in my life for the past week, God's really showing me a lot of stuff about handling my emotions and matters of the heart.
I have seen quite a few people in my class who went through break-ups, what the point of getting together then in the first place....? You mean they just enter a relationship to 'try' each other out ?? That's so ABSURB!! What NAIVETY !! What good is instant gratification if all you have later is just weeks/months of hurt...
Back to the topic, thank God for His love and how He's healing of past hurts right now, thanks D -Team for praying for me ...!!
I am really looking for a friend, a best friend to just open up myself totally towards him/her... ; a soulmate to love unconditionally, unsacrifically.....
Sunday, January 15, 2006
School's in, Mind's still on holiday
That's right, one week of school just flew past the corners of my eyes, and reality's setting in... 6 Modules again this semester, and i can't afford to start the second week as sluggishly as i started the first; BUT the flesh is unwilling.... ='(
One geography based module, a finanical accounting module and 4 core modules.... A laboratory session on Wednesday .... =(
Trying to get to sleep earlier tonight... Hoping that i can start piecing the jigsaw with Yin tomorrow afternoon....
One geography based module, a finanical accounting module and 4 core modules.... A laboratory session on Wednesday .... =(
Trying to get to sleep earlier tonight... Hoping that i can start piecing the jigsaw with Yin tomorrow afternoon....
Saturday, January 14, 2006
Rain, Lots of it ....
Yup, really heavy rainfall this past week, it's been 6 days since i seen any sunshine. Cold weather in Singapore for the past fortnight, which logically coincided with the Big Asia Chill.
Lots of things to write about since the last time i updated this little space.
Melanie, i kept my promise!! =)
Let's start;
November was my intensive month of preparation for the exams and i didn't really believe that i had the stamina to last 12-hour days in school 'mugging' for the 6 papers i am having from 22nd Nov to 1st Dec. 0930 to 2130 it is for me, clocking 9-10 hours of studying after factoring in the time i had taken for lunches and dinners and that odd 5 min break i took from time to time. Thank God for strength and wisdom; did well for my exams, and everyone (at home) was pretty pleased with it.
22nd Dec is the release of my exam results but i only checked how i've fared only on Christmas afternoon. That's how intense my timetable was during the festive period, busy with church commitments. Happy and privileged to be able to serve God in the children's church ministry. I've got to the chance to know 3 new people in my zone, yes, the zone in which i thought i knew almost everyone already. It's was through saturation during the one week plus prior to the Christmas party for the kids that i know Melissa, Michelle and Charmaine.
Seen Melissa around for transport trainings before but never took the opportunity to initiate a conversation with her. Well, i had to on one of those days (the period prior to Christmas), had to teach and help her learn the ropes of saturation. It's was on that day that i know Michelle too. Got to talk to her when we were at the 'entrance' of overhead bridge linking Compass Point and the bus stop, giving out those cute little flyers. And she was my transport helper on the 23rd and 24th Dec, the dates on which the kids parties were held. I must really comment that she's a really good helper, not only just fulfilling her roles but somehow challenged me to serve God and the kids better through the way she does things. She's the first helper to make me felt that way; and transport was done rather smoothly and we (the kids and us) had great fun on the trips =^) Came to know that Michelle's in the same cell group as Yvonne (haha .. what a coincidence) when we were at Hougang Mall, shopping, dining, frantically looking for a photocopying services, on top of doing saturation.. hehe ... =)
Dec 30th, got a call for a job interview, but it's so close to my sch term already and i am really reluctant to work as i study. Anyway told Yin about it and she advise me not to work there for the company as the environment is not good; a negative factor for Christian growth, based on what she saw on her interview which was a few weeks before i got my call-up. Eventually, i postponed the job interview to May, that's when my current semester will end and when i will be considering job offers other than tuition assignments. =^)
That's all for my Dec update, this month's update will come in about 12 hours time, if i am not too tired by the time i reach home after service.
Lots of things to write about since the last time i updated this little space.
Melanie, i kept my promise!! =)
Let's start;
November was my intensive month of preparation for the exams and i didn't really believe that i had the stamina to last 12-hour days in school 'mugging' for the 6 papers i am having from 22nd Nov to 1st Dec. 0930 to 2130 it is for me, clocking 9-10 hours of studying after factoring in the time i had taken for lunches and dinners and that odd 5 min break i took from time to time. Thank God for strength and wisdom; did well for my exams, and everyone (at home) was pretty pleased with it.
22nd Dec is the release of my exam results but i only checked how i've fared only on Christmas afternoon. That's how intense my timetable was during the festive period, busy with church commitments. Happy and privileged to be able to serve God in the children's church ministry. I've got to the chance to know 3 new people in my zone, yes, the zone in which i thought i knew almost everyone already. It's was through saturation during the one week plus prior to the Christmas party for the kids that i know Melissa, Michelle and Charmaine.
Seen Melissa around for transport trainings before but never took the opportunity to initiate a conversation with her. Well, i had to on one of those days (the period prior to Christmas), had to teach and help her learn the ropes of saturation. It's was on that day that i know Michelle too. Got to talk to her when we were at the 'entrance' of overhead bridge linking Compass Point and the bus stop, giving out those cute little flyers. And she was my transport helper on the 23rd and 24th Dec, the dates on which the kids parties were held. I must really comment that she's a really good helper, not only just fulfilling her roles but somehow challenged me to serve God and the kids better through the way she does things. She's the first helper to make me felt that way; and transport was done rather smoothly and we (the kids and us) had great fun on the trips =^) Came to know that Michelle's in the same cell group as Yvonne (haha .. what a coincidence) when we were at Hougang Mall, shopping, dining, frantically looking for a photocopying services, on top of doing saturation.. hehe ... =)
Dec 30th, got a call for a job interview, but it's so close to my sch term already and i am really reluctant to work as i study. Anyway told Yin about it and she advise me not to work there for the company as the environment is not good; a negative factor for Christian growth, based on what she saw on her interview which was a few weeks before i got my call-up. Eventually, i postponed the job interview to May, that's when my current semester will end and when i will be considering job offers other than tuition assignments. =^)
That's all for my Dec update, this month's update will come in about 12 hours time, if i am not too tired by the time i reach home after service.
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